Survive wedding

It is not easy for bride and groom, especially the first-time bride and groom, to go through their whole wedding ceremony and reception process. If dating is always nice, romantic, passionately missed in two-persons world to the lovers, then wedding is a test to them facing the crowd of their social net to certify their true love to each other, expose real personal characteristics, and anticipate to the future life live together. Some times the practical troubles and conflicts are so huge and nonnegotiable, the wedding becomes the ending in worst.

So you need to survive wedding, right? Don't be overwhelmed by the conflicts. You couple need to strive together showing and extending your love from the first challenge of your life, by which the wedding could be so you can take it more seriously.

Firstly you couple should be a solid team, each other's support. In your wedding you will meet the circles and connections of the other, who are familiar and connected with your spouse-to-be but not recognize you or even antagonistic to you. Be understandable to this and try to get involved and accepted. If you don't like them or declined by them, it is OK, just be friendly to them. After all, you will live with your spouse-to-be, other than your spouse-to-be's circle.

Secondly staying calm, don't let stress and anxiety send you into an emotional tailspin. Don't let the unhappy details strike you down. When things get tough, keep reminding yourself that it is the marriage, not the wedding, that is important to you.

Thirdly taking care of yourselves. Do things right as suggested by Peggy Post:

• Eat right - you need the energy.
• Exercise - you need the release.
• Get enough sleep - you can cope much better when you're rested.
• Go on dates - the two of you need time alone together.
• Find beauty in everything - and where you can't, find humor.